Pride and a Giving Heart
Vs. Ego and Selfishness
By: Soke Philip Holder

There is a driving force that compels some people to excel and be all that they can. Is it the need to achieve, a concern for others, or a concern for self? The same fuel that causes some to achieve greatness causes others to achieve infamy. As well, at different stages of our development, we may move from one level or mentality to the other.
Hopefully, as we all mature we will move from the selfish "Id" to a more giving, accepting, and compassionate nature. I see this always in truly Great Masters.
This organization, as I understand it, was conceived to bring the cream of the crop...Martial Arts role models, together to uplift the stature of the arts as a whole regardless of style. That is a noble calling. In accomplishing that goal, consider this...
Those who are perceived as great are those who have given to others with no ulterior motive for gain. Those who strive for fame at the expense of others or for personal gain are always viewed as petty.
Dr. Salk gave away his polio vaccine for the good of mankind. He is viewed as a great man.
Adolph Hitler sought power and control and although achieving them for a short time is viewed by history as a petty, selfish person.
The greatness in us is achieved when we let go of our egos and work together to make a better world for our families, our students, and our arts (all arts). One art cannot flourish at the expense of another. They are all diminished when we fail to respect our brother's art and beliefs. Each art holds something for each individual.
Our goal as martial arts role models should be to help each student find the art and insrtuctor that best fits their needs, rather than to try vainly to convert every student to our personal preference.
By accepting our responsibility as role models, by striving to help each student and each insrtuctor reach their goals, with no thought of personal gain, we inadvertently achieve great things for both our arts and for ourselves.
The road to mediocrity is selfishness.
The road to greatness is concern, responsibility and a giving heart. Our great abilities and strengths must give us the confidence and peace of mind to work together for the good of all those who look up to us.

Grandmaster Philip Holder
North American Wing Chun Association
Ying Gi Ga Wing Chun
Member WHFSC